For example, you are at a dinner party, the hostess has set a beautiful table. You never really know how the intimidator feels or what he/she truly needs from you.6. Intimidation is done to teach you that you and your needs don’t matter.
The intimidator looks your way and says, “you should get xxxx to teach you how to set a table like this.” This is a backhanded way of complimenting the hostess while also putting you down.5. And, the first step in breaking away from the intimidator is to fully realize that you matter as much as he/she.
She went off the wall angry and made a scene in the shop and turned an ugly wrath on her husband. He turned around and walked out of the shop, leaving her seething. The intimidator loves nothing more than putting you down in front of others. Maybe your spouse is always “shocked” at the way you handle life.
I suppose over the years he has learned to put space between himself and his intimidator. It can be in the form of a loving “tease” or down right mean. The intimidator requests something and then complains when you give him/her what was requested. They lay down the law and expect you to follow their law. Only thing, the laws don’t apply to the intimidator. Maybe it is as simple as the way your spouse sits or stands when communicating with you. It can be as severe as physical violence, hurtful words, and threats to your loved ones.
Men love women who are driven to make money, either through employment or through a business where she is the boss.
However, when the woman is so focused on her career that she does not even have time for her man, that situation is very intimidating.
Today women have the opportunity to become anything they fancy; they can become heads of families, leaders of corporations and even presidents of countries.I learned from the forensic unit of the psych hospital, where you can never let a soul believe you're the tiniest bit afraid of them.A few of the things I do- when someone else is trying to act tough I point out that they're acting differently and ask what the tough guy act is about.However, other women do not even know that they intimidate men because they see their success as a good thing, something that their men can find to be of great value and assistance in their relationship.Every woman should try her very best to develop the following attributes, but she should realize that every decision she makes has a consequence.