You do that by responding with confidence, positivity, and even playfulness. I’d like to think I’m a lot better now.” If you handle her hesitance well, she will usually open up about her sexuality.Here are 3 ways make a woman feel more comfortable if she’s hesitating to answer a sexual question. If you tried one of the above examples and she’s still uncomfortable answering your question, then I wouldn’t broach the subject further during this interaction.” Now if you’re naturally discussing a related topic like The movie, past relationships / hookups / dates, online dating, or first kisses — then take that opportunity to move into more intimate topics.But you can’t always rely on getting “gimmes” like that. You have to take a chance and lead into these sexual subjects.
After a couple of minutes, we were all introducing ourselves and hitting it off like old friends.
“My friend and I just made a bet and we want you to settle it. ” I’d just read some pick-up advice that told me to approach girls in bars with that question. They even began debating each other and trying to argue their viewpoints playfully to me.
We all do it, it’s not a big deal.” As I awaited the wrath of three women, I was surprised to hear them laughing and sharing their opinions.
Why did women suddenly respond with enthusiasm rather than distaste?
Whether it’s friends, family, religion, or media — many of us were raised to think that expressing our sexual interest (flirting) was wrong. This is especially true for many women who are afraid of being seen as “slutty” or too forward.