NOTE: We are re-posting this article on Warning Signs – Insults You/Calls You Names to allow you to read some of the excellent comments we’ve received from those who are or have been in an abusive relationship.Please be aware that these comments are for informational purposes only; we cannot verify the validity of each individual comment.But speaking from experience, when your moral compass is on right, you may think about doing something evil, but that’s all it leads to.Obviously it could happen, depending on their mental state, but very rarely does someone act on their evil thoughts if they strongly believe that hurting others (physically, mentally, or spiritually) is wrong.Their parents didn’t unravel the family by separating.Rather, they separated because the family had already unraveled.So many guys don’t understand why their ex-girlfriend won’t take them back after a bad breakup, but the truth is that your true colors have been exposed – and she did not like what she saw.That can REALLY suck if you want her back in your life.
Needless to say, she obviously thought very little of him and was a woman who was capable of being mean.
When children under ten see their parents in open conflict, they tend to blame themselves. As they get older, they may just withdraw and become increasingly isolated from one or both parents.
However, the biggest long-term damage comes from their internalizing what they see modeled.
– Huffington Post In other words, if you are going to get back together with an ex-girlfriend, get back with one who doesn’t act poorly after the breakup because, if you are honest with yourself, you know exactly who you are dealing with.
Some people may argue and say that a good woman could lose it for a while and do something horribly out of her nature.