They can get that same surge from any other sexual encounter.They also release a surge of prolactin and glycogen, which makes them fall asleep.At Matchmakers In The City, no sex until exclusivity is literally in our official Dating Guidelines, and every day I open up an email with a new success story of a couple who followed it and is now enjoying a fabulous, committed relationship.I know that this is probably far from the answer that you want to hear, and I know that we all know that couple who hooked up on the first date and is now raising their fifth kid. There are fewer more magical experiences than connecting with another person in such a deep level, and you cannot help yourself but feel incredibly connected to a man after you have sex with him.These are the women who he actually enjoys spending time with, who he finds both physically attractive and mentally stimulating.
Most women would never even dream of sleeping with a majority of the different men in their lives and are way more discerning when it comes down to who they will actually sleep with.These are the girls that he wants to bring to dinner, not just out for drinks. How can you tell if a guy just wants to sleep with you or if he actually wants to date you?How can you tell if he puts you in Category 1 or Category 2?But, to quote another great blockbuster, "He's Just Not That Into You," this is the exception, not the rule. But, whether we want to admit it or not, sex is just different for women.It also makes this rule inconvenient because sex is incredible. When women have sex, we release the hormone oxytocin which is the “cuddle” hormone that literally makes us experience feelings of love, happiness and connection.