Still, I have issues with anxiety and depression, and this is definitely triggering me.
I do not want to snoop and I want to trust her, but I am having a hard time with both.
So, yeah, stop answering that drunk girl's summonses.
Let her know you want more than sex, and if she's not interested in something more, you're not interested in her.
I hope that's not a problem." You would have dumped her on the spot, right? She didn't really have any interest in me except for the occasional drink; she just wanted to be friends. We drank a bit more than we could handle and slept together, and I thought we would start dating.
We went out for a few more drinks and then slept together again. When I contact her during the day, she never seems interested.
But she assumed—incorrectly, as it turned out—you would have a problem with those texts.
It was a reasonable assumption on her part, since swapping flirty texts with a stranger is regarded as "out of bounds" by most.
Prior to this, it never occurred to me that Mary would do anything that had a whiff of dishonesty about it.
But her having kept this from me for as long as I have known her has made me question that.