If you're just looking for sex, then carry on, but if not, how can you tell if a guy is really right for the long-term?
In order to do that, she devised a way to tell whether a guy wants the same things as you, which should be the foundation of any long-term relationship (we discussed it here on Smitten a few years ago).
You do not send a 'thank-you' follow-up text.
What you want to see after the first date is if he really likes you too.
Give him the opportunity to show you how he feels with no assistance or pushing or convincing."Men will start ramping up their displays of courtship for you over the next few dates if they get really excited about you.
He's going to hopefully be texting you, emailing you, and trying to lock you down for another date.