Black men, however, are constantly socially encouraged to pursue exotic women. But it’s become an awful trend for a few black men to belittle black women, sometimes in the action of interracial dating. Then we have shit like “white girls evolving/winning/etc.” Alas.Today, exotic men are also beginning to become the ideal, but exotic women have been idolised for much longer. The black woman is identified as loud, disruptive, and lousy.Another reason for some german women may be the history, knowing about the persecution and the genocide by the nazis.But that's not me and i think it's not the mean reason.
The farthest she went outside of our ethnicity was my daddy, who is “mixed” but logically is African-American still. I’m still down with anything else there is to offer.Surely it's about their dark skin, and mostly i like a black mens apearance. It also could be the way he moves, his behavior, or how he smells...Most of them are confident and a women gets all the attention she needs, and within there is also the sexual aspect.It's becoming rare to see the reverse." This all started because I was referencing a conversation we'd had when I was pregnant with our son. You wouldn't want him to have coarse hair if you could help it. If you think I'm wrong, listen to your music and get back to me. My boyfriend had said lightheartedly, "I hope our son has my hair." My boyfriend has beautiful, soft curls, a genetic gift from both his races. It would be easier to manage if his hair was curly was all I'm saying." The rational part of me thought about what he was trying to say, but no matter how much I replayed it, it still didn't sound right to me. Everywhere from pop culture to the hood, men are either consciously or subconsciously telling black women they aren't "wanted." I have seen black man not even look twice at black women whom I see as beautiful, yet I've seen them break their necks for decent-looking -- dare I say unattractive -- women of other races. Granted, I think everyone is entitled to a personal preference regarding whom they like.