A generic dinner and a movie does not advance the cause of your relationship and might just become an excuse to get together and make out.That’s not how you build a foundation for a successful, loving future. If you want to see if he is long-term material, you have to inject some of yourself into each date, too.So if things are going well on date number one, plant a seed for the second date then and there.Try one of these: When you hang each date from a peg in his life (or yours), you are really paving a course that could socially and psychologically integrate your lives and turn you into a real dynamic duo.First dates often begin with so much tension and worry that it’s hard to let your mind go and just have a good time.Then once the ice is finally broken, you’re both still so wound up that everything seems hilarious and you spend the rest of the night with huge smiles plastered on your mugs.(He’s a cop.) When we left the restaurant, I happened to have parked right next to him.
There is no need to invite him over for a second date and come to the door covered in whipped cream.
To be clear — this isn’t about agreeing to a pity date, or anything to that effect.
Second dates are an opportunity to actually see if there are indeed “fireworks” or “chemistry,” with less nervousness there to put out the sparks.
That is the real prize you have to offer, which he cannot get from any other woman.
Women are not always aware of the enormous power of their secret weapons.