So now we have brought our successful formula on-line to offer you, wherever you live, the chance to connect with like-minded country lovers.
This is the site for you whether you are country-based or a city-dweller who loves gardening, walking, fishing, riding or any other country hobby.
Love blinds common sense.” “No Nigerian, Ghanaian or Jamaican man is welcome in my house. Why is it better for me to be with a white man than it is to be with a Nigerian? How many marriages do you know of people from two different African countries that have lasted till old age? I pondered those phrases: “It’s for your own good” and “stick to your own”.
Stop wasting your time; you’ll regret it when you get older. It’s for your own good”, said her mother, adamantly.
Being a fluent English speaker who also communicated with her parents in her mother tongue, I tended to slip between languages without thinking about it.When I spoke to another Congolese person they understood me, but when I spoke to someone who didn’t speak my mother tongue, conversations couldn’t be as natural as I wanted them to be.A Ghanaian friend of mine told me “My (Jamaican) boyfriend really tried to speak my language because he realised that it was important to me.” Ethnic capital of the world For me, a twenty-something year old Congolese woman who grew up in the city of London – a city I like to call “the ethnic capital of Europe” – dating someone from a different culture was not a problem.Dating can be a daunting prospect, especially if you are dating later in life and our aim is to make it as straightforward as possible in a secure environment.The behind-the-scenes team works constantly to vet members and help you along the way. Do keep in touch - as always, we'd love to hear how you are getting on!