If you need less, try to be a little more communicative than you might tend to be. For instance, if he wants to talk daily and you don't, perhaps you can commit to sending a one-line loving e-mail each day, just so he knows you're thinking of him.E-mail is a wonderful invention for separated loved ones and is particularly useful in helping to avoid transferring your IRA directly to AT&T.However you do it, be conscious of the costs involved and try to apportion them in a fair manner.It can cause resentment if one of you foots the bill for everything.how do i help make him belive in me and know i believe in him.we both know we love each other and we are doing all the right things to make it work but hes just not trusting me that much what do i do HELP?Just remember: this is a note, not a Talmudic passage to be read and re-read for every hidden nuance, message and subtext.(Being overly analytical can be a real burden here.) If you have an issue to resolve, try to do it over the phone or in person. To cut down phone costs, try calling your Beloved One when you know he or she won't be in – and leave a "thinking of you" message on voice mail.
I felt millions of miles away from him (really, it was only 9,000), unloved, uncared for, forgotten...But simple companionship and connectedness is often the meat and bones of a relationship – and you still have to prepare yourself for the absence of his or her warmth, smile and all the wonders of non-verbal communication.When a boyfriend and I were separated for three months, I drove him absolutely crazy because I needed – non-negotiably – to talk to him each day.My boyfriend and I have been friends for 4 years, and have only been in a LDR for a couple of months. most of the time it's easier to be afraid and lonely than happy.But we work hard at keeping our relationship and he is planning to finally visit despite his worries about flying.