I didn’t know how to pay my bills on time, or clean an oven and my bedspread was from the children’s section of Target.Though I’d always thought of myself as mentally and emotionally mature I still saw 30 as “grown-up” and on the inside I felt too similar to a lost little girl.Similarly, Jordan discusses buying a new car, expanding his business, even just heading into the grocery store and buying whatever catches his eye without feeling slightly guilty about shopping at Whole Foods.Depending on your partner’s spending habits and relationship with money this financial difference may be more or less obvious.Not long after we took a road trip to California together, said “I love you” for the first time on Valentine’s day and the rest…it’s not so distant history.
I get insecure if his ex girlfriend likes a bunch of his photos on instagram, but he doesn’t understand because some of his friends are dealing with divorces and child support.
), but rather that I couldn’t imagine our lives would mesh well together.
I was a full time nanny, he was the owner of a construction company.
It isn’t necessarily wrong that the two of you don’t share the same issues, but it takes recognition and understanding to provide the proper level of support.
You don’t have the right to belittle your partner’s problems and he/she should give you the same respect.