Arrange your first face-to-face encounter in a public place. That way if you find the spark just isn't there in person, you can bow out gracefully.
A coffee date or lunch is a good call and hey, if you hit it off, you can always let the date run on to supper or a movie.
There's always some reason they need the money in cash.
THE GOLDEN RULE: NEVER, EVER, EVER (DID WE MENTION EVER? First dates can be amazing - all the anticipation, butterflies and excitement of meeting someone with whom you've sparked on Telegraph Dating.
All you need to do is follow these simple, common-sense tips to get the most out of Telegraph Dating.
We've successfully steered thousands of single people into happy relationships and while we want this journey to be fun for you, we cannot ignore your safety.
We continuously put a lot of effort into creating a secure space where you can find exactly what you're looking for.
If something seems wrong or you suddenly feel uncomfortable or threatened, remove yourself from the situation. Most members of Telegraph Dating are just like you - they're hoping to find someone special, and make a real connection, but just like any other facet of life, there's an occasional rotten apple lurking in the barrel, just waiting for a kind-hearted person to scam.They'll usually employ one of the following two methods to extract cash out of you: Your online match has professed undying love (usually with undue haste), now all that lies between the two of you and enduring happiness is a couple of borders."Wouldn't it be great to meet, test this new found love? But alas, he or she just doesn't have the spare cash for a ticket/visa/pet sitter.If you want to stop someone from contacting you on Telegraph Dating, just click on the "Block Him/Her" link at the bottom of their profile, and they'll be out of your hair. It's as easy as clicking on the "Report Abuse" link at the bottom of their profile.You wouldn't give your cash to someone you'd just met in a bar or at a bookshop, would you? All complaints are treated in the strictest confidence and could result in, amongst other things, the suspension or deletion of the offending member's profile.