“Pick out a detail from her profile and explain why it caught your eye,” says Black.
“This shows that you’re really interested and more importantly, it gives you something to bond over in future messages.”3 Steps to the Perfect Online Dating Profile VIII.
“The more you disclose, the closer you become to the other person, which makes it easier to get hurt.” Be honest about your wants and interests but wait until you trust the person before diving into the deep stuff. THOU SHALT NOT GET WEIRD AFTER GETTING REJECTED If a woman doesn’t respond to your message, don’t take it personally.
I will off the top of my head make 10 rules to go by when dating if you are a man. As in a woman who thinks their is no difference between boys and girls other than social constructs made up by the patriarchy. If you're attracted to the physical appearance of a girl when you start dating her a little weight gain won't change that. Really I think starting to binge drink or something like that all the time would be worse...
Also for the most part I wouldn't be attracted to some one who is fat. This means don't date a woman who truelly buys into complete equality between men and women. Understands men need it regularly and not to with hold it. If you like a little extra meat, make sure she's skinny when you start dating and you'll have a decent chance of ending up with the body type you really like in 2-7 years.
THOU SHALT NOT DIVE INTO THE DEEP STUFF In a study at Capella University, online daters felt like they were seeing an old friend on their first date—but that familiarity can backfire, experts say.
“Talking online could give you a false indication of how well you know your date,” says Black.